I wanna take the time to write a post just for the NYC tall guys for a second. Seduction gurus are always focusing on the guys that aren't so physically appealing, so what that does for guys that are, is kind of leave them left out. Just because you're physically attractive doesn't mean that you're good with women. And we all know that physically attractive guys have to approach NYC women differently than guys that aren't. What's really interesting to me, is that the guys that come to me directly for help in the field, are usually tall guys. In fact, I'm 6'4", and these guys were taller than, and in most cases, better-looking than me. There was one tall guy that had it all: a jacked body, the height, cool clothes, he wasn't weird, he was incredibly intelligent, and came from a pretty good family, yet he was a virgin. And judging from the number of tall NYC guys that come to me looking for help, I speculate that there are many more of you out there. I know because I was one of them.

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As a tall guy, you probably already know what other guys say about you: all the women want guys like you, you got lucky in the genetic pool, guys like you never have to work for women. And you know what? They're right. However, being a tall guy, I know that your mind has yet to catch up with reality. What is that reality? That you are among the most desired men on the planet. Only a very small percentage of NYC men break that 6'1" threshold. Not only are you more attractive, but you are also scarce, thus doubling your value. You are the equivalent of the rare 6' blonde that NYC men crave so much.

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All of this basically takes away everything that you have going for you. I'm pretty sure that you've learned that women are initially attracted to you, and then they lose interest. Why? Because you are either passive, or you do what every other guy except for you has to do: you try attracting the NYC girl. Think of it like this: if you go into a store and try to buy something, cash in hand ready to pay right away, and a salesman keeps trying to sell you on the product that you already said you were going to buy, you begin to think that something is wrong with the product and start second guessing about buying it. That is precisely what happens with NYC women. They are interested in you, but once they see your lack of assertive confidence, or see that you keep trying to sell yourself in spite of the fact that they've already expressed their sexual interest in you, they begin to realize that something is wrong with you, and they lose what interest they had in you.

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If this is true, then why aren't you pulling a lot of women? Why is it that you're experiencing difficulty? Because your mind has yet to catch up with reality. Like me, since you were a tall guy, other NYC men have always felt threatened by you. Any chance that they get, they try to get you to suppress any aggressive move that you're thinking about making (or make). If you try to assert yourself, then they label you a bully. If women naturally gravitate towards you, they call you a guy who steal girls, even though the girl clearly chose you. And if you show confidence, then they call you a dick. If this happens enough to you by your own friends, you learn to be more passive, you learn to ignore NYC girls when your friends are around and they want the same girl, and you learn not to be too cocky.

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As a tall guy, understand that you have it pretty easy with NYC women. Think about it for a second. When you come across that tall 6' blonde, does the look of her face really matter? Probably not, as long as it is decent looking. Does her weight matter? Probably not as long as she is in pretty good shape. You're just happy to hit the lottery and get a 6' blonde to flaunt around. Now think about the way women think for a second. They don't care as much about looks. As long as you have a decent looking face, and are in pretty good shape, you, my friend, have hit the genetic lottery. You are the creme de la creme, as far as physical looks go. Once you hit that 6'2"+ threshold, it no longer matters that your body isn't absolutely jacked, and it no longer matters that your face is only a 6-7 on hot or not. Women are just happy to have landed a tall NYC guy, as long as he has confidence.

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As a decent-looking tall guy that is in reasonable shape, you don't have to come at women the way other guys do. All you have to do is let your brain catch up to reality. You have to stop feeling bad because your friends feel threatened by you. You have to start acting like you are the cream of the crop. If you combine your height, with entitlement and fearless confidence, along with a topnotch wardrobe, you, in effect, become a triple threat. Once you become a triple threat, you are a done deal with most of the available NYC women that you approach.

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Some of you may be wondering why all of these NYC girls kept calling me hot, why some said that I was the hottest black guy that they ever met, and why women would pursue me. It wasn't because I had the hottest face. In fact, I'd say that my face is cute, but I'm no baby-faced model. Since NYC women don't care as much about the look of our faces, and instead more about height, social status, and power/dominance, I became this "triple threat" I speak of. I had the height, and since my clothes were usually the most expensive in any given bar and clothes are indicators of status, I had status, and since I was very dominant and confident, I became a triple threat, so to speak (and as a bonus, taller men make more money and are usually appointed to roles of leadership; very valuable in the eyes of a woman). This made my interactions MUCH easier than the typical NYC guy that didn't have a clue.

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